Laziness for Lent

512px-Lazy_DoogieFor Lent this year, I’m giving up laziness. In healthy families, everyone works to keep the household running. We don’t do our children, our spouses or ourselves any favors when we don’t require some sort of consistent work from everyone in the family.

There are two types of work. The first is the one we are all used to; that which makes money for our necessities and desires. The second is housework. Unfortunately, many mistakenly think the latter is women’s work, whether or not she has a job outside the home. This may have been the norm decades ago, but it can no longer be so. One reason is that most women now have to work outside of the home. Second, and more important, the Jesus model is that we serve each another.

Keeping relationships together and strong is work. Sometimes we may even have to help each other remember that. Men must take the lead as examples of servant-leadership in their homes, but I have yet to match the level of service that I see in the women around me. I don’t even want to tell you all that my wife does. Let’s just say that her level of service is amazing. I was spoiled by my mother, but I’m 50 now. That can’t be my excuse for not stepping up. My mother spoils everyone around her by her service. Oh sure, once I try to cook on the weekends, take care of the dishes occasionally and fold and put away some clothes. That takes care of maybe 10% of the housework. 

I’ve let my children off the hook too much also. I have picked up after them and done their share of the housework instead of requiring it of them. So, here’s my goal that may inspire some of you. First, I plan to do more around the house, even if it means I get up early to do it before work. Second, I will expect more of the last child I still have at home part-time.

Here’s a couple of good scriptures to spur us on. Ephesians 5:25 says “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her.” (NKJV)

And for our children…Ephesians 6:1-3 “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honor your father and mother, which is the first commandment with promise: that it may be well with you and you may live long on the earth.” (NKJV) Just as an aside, this one assumes we are giving commands to our children and acting in such a way that promotes honor.

So, let’s not just give up laziness for Lent, but forever so we may serve one another in love and keep our families strong.

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Death, Endurance and Denial

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It’s easy to forget how good we have it. If you’re reading this, at the very least you are alive, have eyesight, own some sort of technical device (maybe even more than one) and have enough fingers to type your way though the Internet. Timothy invites us to remember what’s important.

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Will You Follow?


Jesus Christ challenges us to live outside of our comfort zones and apart from our selfish desires. His words in the Gospels compel us to sacrifice, serve and love.

The call to Christians to count the cost is laid out in Luke 14:25-33.

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Divided ticket

Unity, peace, reconciliation. Such lofty ideals and wonderful words. Ideals to which most aspire. They even sound “Christian,” don’t they?” I contend the opposite is true and base by contentious argument on Luke 12:49-53.

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Are You Ready?


When I was in Boy Scouts, I learned their motto, “Be Prepared.” One of the ways they taught us this important lesson was by taking us camping. If we didn’t plan for and pack everything we needed, we would be in trouble.

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Storing Up



Unselfish, humble, giving hearts. That is what God wants of those who are His own. How do I know this? Because that is His nature. Survival does not require hoarding and there is much more to being blessed than the accumulation of things. Let’s take a look at Luke 12:13-21

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Ask For It


Have you ever wanted something so bad that it make your heart hurt? What did you do about it? Did you work to make it happen? Did you ask anyone for help? Maybe you took a loan or sacrificed your time and resources to achieve your goal. The most important resource is the one most often overlooked. Did you bring your desire and your passion to God to ask Him for His help, guidance and provision?

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Grace or Destruction

Have you seen or heard someone being treated wrong and wanted to take action? Did you get angry? Did you think they deserved to be punished? If you said, “yes” then you can relate to James and John in Luke 9:51-56.

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Living and Walking

How do we measure our relationship with God? How do we measure ourselves? Do we use our own standards, or do we answer to a higher authority? Galatians 5:17-25  points out that the ways tells us the measure of how we live may be seen in how we walk it out; by our fruit.  Continue reading